GuelphToday received the following Letter to the Editor from reader Debra Thompson and Jo Ann Hayter from CFUW Guelph:
Gender-based violence (GBV) is not just an abstract issue—it’s a deeply troubling and devastating reality that impacts lives in every community, including ours. This year, as we mark the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence, it’s a grim reminder that the harm caused by GBV extends far beyond the immediate victim, affecting families, neighbourhoods and entire communities. Addressing this crisis requires more than just awareness—it requires collective action. It takes all of us.
The statistics are alarming. On average, every six days in Canada, a woman is killed by her intimate partner. For Indigenous women, the risks are even higher, as they face violence at more than twice the rate of non-Indigenous women. These numbers aren’t just statistics—they represent real lives lost and futures stolen.
The 16 Days of Activism is a global campaign that calls on individuals and organizations to take a stand against GBV. At the Canadian Federation of University Women (CFUW), we’ve embraced this call to action, using these 16 days as an opportunity to amplify our advocacy and shine a light on the systemic changes needed to end GBV. We’ve fought for stronger laws, better resources for survivors and increased funding for shelters and community programs. These systemic changes are essential, but they are not enough on their own.
Real change starts with each of us. It means challenging our own assumptions, questioning the culture which allows violence to persist and engaging in difficult conversations. Education is a critical piece for this change to happen. When people learn about gender inequality, healthy relationships, and the ways systemic barriers perpetuate violence—whether in schools, workplaces or informal settings—they are empowered to act. This isn’t about assigning blame; it’s about equipping people to be part of the solution.
No single organization, group or individual can tackle GBV alone. It takes all of us. It takes neighbors who speak out against harassment. It takes workplaces committed to equity and fairness. It takes leaders who listen to survivors and craft policies that reflect their realities. And it takes communities standing together to say, “this is unacceptable and must stop now.”
Silence and inaction allow GBV to persist and worsen. Pretending it doesn’t affect us only deepens the crisis. But when we come together—through vigils, advocacy, conversations and education—we create the momentum needed to bring about real, lasting change.
The 16 Days of Activism reminds us that ending GBV is not just about protecting women and girls. It’s about building a society where everyone, regardless of gender, can live free from fear. It’s about valuing each other’s humanity.
So, what can you do? Start where you are. Listen to survivors. Support local organizations. Speak up. And remember, even small actions matter.
Gender-based violence is not inevitable—it’s preventable. It’s a challenge we can overcome, but it truly will take all of us. Together.
Debra Thompson
Chair, Advocacy Committee, CFUW Guelph
Jo Ann Hayter
President, CFUW Guelph
